ee & er
there is always the word compromise or meeting halfway, however to some it tends to be a difficult task to undertake. A person says he is a pleaser, he would want to please as many as he could, however in doing so, he only ends up pleasing himself and not the other ways around. A pleasee on the other hand, sometimes expects so much that a pleaser would have a hard time coping up to the expectation, it really is diffiult being in either position or situation.
pleaser or pleasee… you tell me=)