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first time in this year or for such a long time that i didnt leave home, i just stayed the whole day in our home, not even stepping downstair, what a feat…

catholics or those who believe in God, pay respect for the death of christ and regard Him as our savior… for us believers, for non believer showing consideration is good enough=)

reflect on the things weve done wrong, for the things that we did that hurt others, and even for the thoughts we made that aren’t that good, think about all those things, and pray to God for our forgiveness, we should also pray for all the blessings that we had achieved and pray for more to come=)

life in general consist of only two extremes, true or false, yes or no, black or white, there arent any gray areas, come to think of it, if we only look and analyze deeply there really is nothing in between, we only make things difficult by adding a different perspective. I am not stating a communistic point of view here, its just that whatever “or” answer we give makes it even harder for us to be understood.

sometimes as the years unfold it doesnt only create wrinkles on the forehead but also question that occasionally makes us wonder, a burned wood would be an ash, however if you take a second look, that ashes could have been the most significnat wood carving a man immortalize, there would be a lot of what if’s that somehow would tease our mind…

if you are chronologically challenge, yet you are single would you say, your single and fabulous? how about being alone would you reaally be happy or you’d just be faking it?…

this might be strange, but somehow if you happen to be in the midst of twilight, and desperately seeking for a light, either you curse, cry, suppress yourself, and most effective is… pray

however this idea caught me, we always hear people say “tell that to yourself”, so we should literally tell it to ourselves, after a days work, after an exahausting moment, or even when we feel alone or scared. We should look at the mirror and talk to him, tell him everything, your anxiety, your loss, how stupid you may had been, you can also focus on yourself before a speech, absolutely the whole nine yards.

then you see your facial reaction, then you see how others may see you, then you see the response you ellicit for delivering such emotion, then you see yourself, your inner self. after which you feel good, you will feel lighter, youve unleashed the bitterness not to other people, not to friends not even to a shrink but to yourself.

this was lifted from dero pederos article on serenity, a prayer that we all could try in everyday life=)

“God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; the courage to change the things I can; and the wisdom to know the difference.

Someone who feels for me
Who’s constantly in love with me
And cares for me
Someone who wont say goodbye
Someone who can change my life…

those text were lifted from a song, but they mean a lot=)

negative attitudes, past heartaches, grivevances, woes, hatred, pain, all the misery and sorrow that had struck and torn our heart, bury them!!! we’ve all gone through a lot of torments and this may be the counterpart of funeral, just imagine those ill feeling locked up under a glass coffin, where in we mourn, we spend sleepless night, so much thinking about what mistakes could we had committed that makes us get upset so much…
this time, we should lay them to rest, so we could pursue our life more happily, and with all blunder effortlessly done, we odnt regret or forget them, they would all be stored in a casket with epitaph that says”here lies the unvirtues melancholy, it did pricked my heart and make it bled,yet God heals all wound and make us more learned”

halloween is the fun part of celebrating with scary stuff to spook us, however we should also pay respect to our beloved that had passed away, not necessarily saty at the cementery the whole day, making others see your sacrifies to drench oneself with the sun,dust and humid weather,not to mention traffic and so much peoplr who fled as they offer their rituals and “respect” sometimes sacrifies are better unseen rather than showing it off…

a lost love can also be something that we grieve upon, however it should not cease us from moving on and taking chance again, its just a lesson we learn that would make us more capable of loving the next time around…

unlike a life that dies, love never…

…in falling in love, one should not get tired, should not get weary, should not feel at lost, yet we yearn, we plead as we want love to come our way, God may had answered love has crosses your way it wasnt by chance that you were at the right moment that it passed you, however love has hope as we continuosly pray that somehow that a magical split second two hearts would beat as one…”

“you can easily judge the character of others by how they treat those who they think can do nothing for them”
“you can see whats not seen on a person on how they deal with people surrounding them, like how a superior treats his subordinates (an owner to his servant) how they treat them are their inner attitudes which they dont show but who they really are…”